TheMinsterman
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I won’t dwell on the conflation of Europe and the EU (as moaning about that for 15-20 years has done fuck all to stop people doing it) but, seriously, what does ‘evaluate our relationship with Europe’ me
You posit a counterfactual in which Remain wins 52-48 and appear to suggest there should be some concessions to Brexity tossers like me – some generosity in victory in recognition of the closeness of the result. And, your implied point here, of course, is that Leavers should be doing that now instead of persisting with their unreasonable, dogmatic insistence that leaving the EU should actually mean withdrawing from the political institutions, systems and agreements that define it.
But what do you have in mind? People often preach the virtues of compromise and generosity when they’ve lost. It’s usually insincere. You’ve always struck me as a likeable chap. I’d like to believe you’re being sincere, but you’re giving me nothing to go on. And since I have something like 15-20 years of hearing pro-EU folk pay lip service to EU-sceptic concerns (e.g. every time UKIP surpassed expectation in EP elections) and then follow it up with the square root of fuck all, I’m pretty sceptical. Convince me.
Also, if we do entertain this rather charming idea that a narrow 52-48 win for Remain would have resulted in an improved respect for EU-sceptic concerns, what difference would that make vis-à-vis intra-EU politics? As I wrote on here before the referendum, the EU’s intended integrationist course is clear. Its unwillingness to deviate from that course is a well-documented historical fact. So even if you were to suggest, say, significant reforms to FoM (to assuage Leaver concerns about weak immigration control), do you think they’d budge on that?
It isn't so much that I think Leavers shouldn't persist with pushing for the elements of Brexit to which they proscribe, to whatever extent of "hard/softness" they so desire, it's that they ought to accept, considering the narrow margins involved, that the concerns and fears of those of who voted Remain are not inconsequential whines of a losing party unwilling to accept democracy but people who are genuinely terrified by the frankly farcical scenario unfolding before us.
I completely accept that my being so magnanimous isn't exactly reflective of the entire electorate on either side, but what I had in mind is essentially as I stated, a legitimate debate surrounding the terms with which we entered negotiations with the EU BEFORE triggering Article 50, instead of hastily triggering it and essentially winging it as we've gone along whilst the issue is still being hotly debated. I can only speak for myself and other "Remainers" I know but it isn't that we "lost", it's that we were never sold a coherent vision of Brexit, we still haven't been yet we jumped straight in and the entire thing is a shambles.
I can accept "losing", what I can't accept is seeing my entire working future effectively gambled with because the Tory party want to spend the negotiation period splintering into civil war and watching complete opportunists essentially play a Game of Thrones knowing full well they're wealthy enough to absorb the brutality of a complete fuck up as they're insulated in their ivory towers.
The lack of any real discussion, from a referendum where neither side was really selling a coherent vision means I've been left with a product I didn't ask for, with a troubleshooting guide written by engineers who can't even agree on how it should function whilst the people who filed the patent have fucked off and left me to watch my house burn down all whilst telling me to be grateful for the gift in the first place.
To me, it's much broader than what hypothetically I would have done if Remain had won so narrowly. The entire landscape of political dialogue is so inherently toxic these days, people get in the trenches, draw their battle lines, pick sides and devote themselves to a process of "othering" their opponents as untouchables. This complete inability to have an honest dialogue, with people we may disagree with, is just being encapsulated by Brexit.
In the hypothetical though, for example, I think we should have taken people's concerns much more seriously, there is too often a habit to flippantly brush off concerns surrounding immigration for example as inherently racist or xenophobic, instead of listening to people's worries we've invalidated them and effectively shamed them and turned them into pariahs. To not even entertain these concerns or look at ways through which to alleviate them within whatever the framework is, is wrong. The referendum has effectively contributed to the divisions already emerging, regardless of who won I think ignoring the concerns of the "losers" is a fundamentally ignorant and divisive means of moving forward, we need to have some level of unity to make this work, instead we have little to none.
You'll never convince every Remainer, but there are enough of us who are completely open to being sold a viable Brexit which doesn't appear to play fast and loose with our futures that you could certainly convince a much bigger majority that you have currently.
I consider you a perfectly reasonable and likeable chap, we don't necessarily agree on everything politically but I can happily sit down and discuss it with you without drawing conclusions about you before we even begin. There's too much division and open hostility that stifles real debate, I think the fact that we pursued Brexit without engaging in one, whilst accepting the result was to leave and that means losing some of the things I or other Remainers may wish to keep, is wrong.